I remembered a walk home years ago. I once worked on the Plaza at Saks Fifth Avenue as a visual merchandiser. I lived in and managed (for free rent!) a small apartment complex (12 units) about a mile north and a couple blocks east of Main Street–the main drag I walked down to the Plaza and back every day. I remembered one evening, cold, after Thanksgiving. The Plaza Lights were on. We were well into the season of “good cheer.” It was dusk, nearly dark.
I was wearing my prized camel-hair Christian Dior coat–wide lapels, back-belted, double-breasted, the skirt of the coat hit me below my calves. I am tallish. It was a long coat. I was also wearing a black beret and black calf-skin gloves. Because it was slushy (we’d had a snow the week before that had not yet melted away) I was also wearing waterproof workboots, my pant-cuffs stuffed into the tops, “buck” in color, long-since scuffed and dirty. I’d been carrying these boots around, move-to-move with me since my days in college where they’d seen lots of wear in my stint working for the Physical Plant at Arkansas State University some years before. I couldn’t let them go, thinking I might need them again. In my walks at that time, they’d been resurrected. I carried my “day-shoes” in a “gift-with-purchase” Adolfo gym bag. Oh how I wander-on–so much, too much–about attire.
I crossed the Plaza, that evening, from the west, where Saks once sat, east to Main Street, then walked up the long, steep hill coming up from the Plaza (47th Street) north to 43rd street. There I turned the corner for the jog east to my street. As I turned north again on Magee, an old van (vintage: mid-sixties?) was stopped on the corner, the passenger side window, half rolled down. I rounded the corner as the van started on down the street from the stop. I distinctly heard a deep voice say “Faggot.” Not loud. Not threatening. A conversational tone. I did not look up from my walk, intent as I was on just completing the last two blocks of my walk to my “safe” apartment where I could divest myself of my attire and still be warm.
I like to think I’m nearly invisible in such situations. When I’m alone on my walk, as I was this evening, coming home from work, I like to think no one really sees me. God knows, when I’m on such a walk, my head is not about “what could happen?” I am lost in thought. Thoughts.
When I am noticed, as I was that evening, I realize I am not invisible. The possibility of happening onto danger lurks all around. But I want no part of it and I walk and live as if it isn’t there.